Research · Verified Against Official State Sources · Version October 19, 2026
Every state runs Medicaid home care differently. This map answers, state by state, whether a spouse, an adult child or other relative, or a friend can be the paid caregiver, who employs them, and whether there is a waitlist. Of the 51 states verified so far, 20 do not pay spouses, 24 allow it in defined cases, and 5 allow it — and nearly all pay another family member.
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51 of 51 states verified. States marked "Under review" are being checked against official sources and will be published with citations.
| State | Spouse | Other relatives | Friends / neighbors | Who employs the caregiver | Waitlist | Verified |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Alabama | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Capped enrollment | October 19, 2026 |
| Alaska | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Arizona | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Arkansas | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| California | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | County pays the caregiver | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Colorado | Yes | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Connecticut | No | Yes | Not yet verified | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Delaware | Not yet verified | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| District of Columbia | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Florida | In defined cases | Yes | Not yet verified | Agency or self-directed | Waitlist | October 13, 2026 |
| Georgia | No | Yes | No | Agency employs the caregiver | Waitlist | October 1, 2026 |
| Hawaii | In defined cases | In defined cases | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Idaho | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Illinois | In defined cases | Yes | Not yet verified | Agency employs the caregiver | No waitlist | October 6, 2026 |
| Indiana | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Iowa | No | Yes | Not yet verified | Agency or self-directed | Not yet verified | October 13, 2026 |
| Kansas | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Kentucky | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Louisiana | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Maine | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Maryland | No | Yes | Not yet verified | Agency employs the caregiver | No waitlist | October 6, 2026 |
| Massachusetts | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Michigan | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 1, 2026 |
| Minnesota | Yes | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Mississippi | No | In defined cases | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Not yet verified | October 19, 2026 |
| Missouri | No | Yes | Yes | Self-directed (participant is the employer) | No waitlist | October 1, 2026 |
| Montana | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Nebraska | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Nevada | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| New Hampshire | No | In defined cases | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| New Jersey | Yes | Yes | Yes | Self-directed (participant is the employer) | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| New Mexico | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| New York | No | In defined cases | Yes | Agency employs the caregiver | No waitlist | October 17, 2026 |
| North Carolina | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| North Dakota | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | State pays the caregiver | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Ohio | In defined cases | Yes | Not yet verified | Agency or self-directed | Not yet verified | October 1, 2026 |
| Oklahoma | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Capped enrollment | October 19, 2026 |
| Oregon | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Pennsylvania | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 1, 2026 |
| Rhode Island | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| South Carolina | No | Yes | Not yet verified | Self-directed (participant is the employer) | Waitlist | October 1, 2026 |
| South Dakota | Not yet verified | In defined cases | Not yet verified | Agency or self-directed | Not yet verified | October 19, 2026 |
| Tennessee | Yes | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Capped enrollment | October 19, 2026 |
| Texas | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Some pathways have a waitlist | October 1, 2026 |
| Utah | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Capped enrollment | October 19, 2026 |
| Vermont | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Virginia | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Not yet verified | October 5, 2026 |
| Washington | No | Yes | Yes | State pays the caregiver | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| West Virginia | No | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Capped enrollment | October 19, 2026 |
| Wisconsin | Yes | Yes | Yes | Self-directed (participant is the employer) | No waitlist | October 19, 2026 |
| Wyoming | In defined cases | Yes | Yes | Agency or self-directed | Capped enrollment | October 19, 2026 |
"In defined cases" means the state's rules allow it only under written conditions — open the state page for the condition and the source. Download the published rows as CSV.
A state is published only after each verdict has been checked against the state's own materials — the approved 1915(c) Medicaid waiver application, the state administrative code, or the state Medicaid or aging agency's official pages — and the source is recorded on the state's page. We do not cite commercial websites. Each row shows the date its facts were last reviewed; rows are re-reviewed when a waiver renews or a rule changes, and at least every six months. Full method, vocabulary and citation format: methodology.
Family Caregiver Pay Map (version 2026-10-19). The Home Care Agency. https://thehomecareagency.com/research/family-caregiver-pay-map. Licensed CC BY 4.0.
Related guide: Can a spouse be paid to be a caregiver? Medicaid rules by state.
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